nigelmoose

October 12, 2009

Happy Birthday Ian!

Filed under: Parenting, Personal — nigelmoose @ 5:01 pm

The boy turned 6 last Wednesday, and we had a small family party at home.
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Then yesterday, we had a swimming & pizza party with many of his friends.

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It’s worked out that many of Ian’s friends have birthdays in Sept/October, so we’ve been averaging one or two parties a weekend for the last several weeks. It’s been fun because we know the parents well too, and most of the parties end up being all-family affairs. But now, Ian’s party yesterday is the last one on our calendar for a while (that we know of right now, anyway). Now that she’s old enough to “get” the idea of a birthday party and having attended several recently, Shannon is looking forward to a party for her 3rd birthday at the end of November!

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September 17, 2009

“You asked. We listened.” says Metro

Filed under: DC, Metro, Virginia — nigelmoose @ 9:56 am

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Spotted this PSA from Metro on the Blue Line this morning:

You asked. We listened.

You asked for a better way to hold on when you’re standing on a moving Metro train. We think these new handles really fit the bill. And we hope you agree.

Christopher Zimmerman
Chairman, Metro Board of Directors

 

Oh boy!  Not only is Metro now listening to our requests, they are responding and advertising that they’ve done so. 

In the spirit of helping Metro help us, I’ve compiled a few other items in hopes that Metro will listen to these, too. 

1. Eliminate chronic delays on trains.  Some of us have actual jobs with bosses who expect us to be to work on time.  And even if we’re not on our way to work, probably sitting on a stalled train is not how we wanted to spend our time.

2. Recalibrate your bus schedules to take into account actual traffic patterns and drive times.  You’ve been driving in this area for decades, Metro.  Surely you can begin to anticipate where the heavy traffic might slow the bus and adjust your timetables accordingly?

3. If you are only going to have one escalator in a station turned on, have it in the “up” position.

4. Anything you can do about safety, for passengers as well as employees?  Your record on that is not looking so great this year, Metro.

5. No more drivers texting, phoning, or sleeping while operating trains and buses.  We know you are working on that one now.

I have more ideas, Metro, but these will do for starters. 

I asked. I hope you listen.

September 11, 2009

Remembering Susan G. Santo on 9/11

Filed under: Essays, Patriotic, Personal, Political — nigelmoose @ 11:52 am

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She was 24 years old and had a young daughter.  She went to work on September 11, 2001, at Marsh & McLennan Cos. Inc. in the North Tower of the World Trade Center.  She was killed that day as a victim of coordinated terrorist attacks against the United States.

I did not know Susan G. Santo, but I’ve been thinking of her almost constantly since I pledged to write a tribute to her as part of Project 2,996.  I asked to be randomly assigned a name, and being a mother of young children myself, it was especially poignant to have the name of a young mother as my honoree.  I’ve been able to find some information about her online, mere snippets of a full and rich life, but they begin to paint a picture of the woman whose life was taken that day. 

In words from those who knew her, she is remembered for her goofiness, humor, strength, determination, and her devotion to her daughter.  To some she was Sue, Susie, Susan.  To online friends she was “mbossy” and her daughter “lil bossy.”  She was a fan of the Mets (and especially Mike Piazza), Junior’s Cheesecake and the musical group Barenaked Ladies.  I remember and mourn today for Susan, this woman I did not know, for the stolen life, the lost potential, the tragically premature separation of mother and child. 

One friend, who chatted with Susan online, wrote in a tribute:

“I remember one of our last ‘talks’ together, how you told me you were worried your daughter would end up like you, without a mom. I told you not to think like that, you were young and had years with her.”

I pray for her daughter, father, brother, family and friends, that they might find comfort in their memories of Susan, and from each other in their common grief.  It’s an honor to have this chance to commemorate her today.  May we always remember Susan and the other victims who were murdered so horrifically that day.

More tributes from Project 2,996.

Remembrance, respect, and gratitude

Filed under: Patriotic, Political, Virginia — nigelmoose @ 9:13 am

August 3, 2009

Kindergarten!

Filed under: Parenting — nigelmoose @ 12:26 pm

Ian first day of kindergarten

November 6, 2008

Aw, that’s a shame

Filed under: Political — nigelmoose @ 11:04 am

“I want my money today! It’s my money. I want it right now!” yelled one former campaign worker.

Not breaking promises already, are we?

In other news, my new t-shirt should be here any day now:

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October 8, 2008

Birthday Fun

Filed under: Parenting, Personal — nigelmoose @ 4:34 pm

The pool party for Ian’s 5th birthday was a lot of fun.  After the swimming, we adjourned to the party room for pizza and cake, where Shannon stood by her big brother’s side as the song was sung, eagerly awaiting her turn at the cake.  Which she kept repeating, just so everyone would know what she wanted: “Cake?  Cake?  Cake?”

October 7, 2008

Happy Birthday

Filed under: Parenting, Personal — nigelmoose @ 1:49 am

Dear Ian,

Happy Birthday!  I’m so proud of you and I can’t wait to see how you develop and grow during your 6th year.  May your year be filled with many joys, a few challenges, and opportunities for growth and triumph.  I’ll be with you every step.

Love, Mom

October 3, 2008

Anxiety check

Filed under: Health, Parenting, Personal — nigelmoose @ 11:18 am

In three days I’ll be going under the knife.  While this is a minor surgery, it’s still surgery requiring general anesthesia and an overnight stay at the hospital, and I find myself nervous.  I continue to marvel at how my outlook has changed since having children.  Now that I have two little people depending on me, I’m so much more anxious about the possibility of something going wrong.  Naturally, I didn’t want anything to happen to me when I was a single woman, but as a wife and mother the stakes are so much higher.  It’s not just about me anymore.  Yes, of course I’ve always had family and friends who cared what happened to me…but it is different when young children are part of the equation.

Lest this post verge off any further into gloomy territory, I must remember that I’m having this surgery to correct a condition that impairs my day to day functioning, and that, if left untreated, could have serious long-term health ramifications.  So really, I’m doing this to benefit myself and my family in the short-term and in the long run.  I’ll just remind myself of what I’m telling the kids—it’s no big deal, and mommy will be back home the next day.  And I’ll stop thinking about those explicitly-worded informed consent and living will forms that they sent me.

September 11, 2008

We will never forget

Filed under: DC, Patriotic, Political, Virginia — nigelmoose @ 11:15 am

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